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You Owe The World Your Gifts, Don’t Shortchange Us!

Sing your song!

“Use what talents you possess; the woods would be very silent if no birds sang there except those that sang best.”~Henry Van Dyke

Why you may ask? Or you may think, “I don’t have anything worth sharing or anything that anyone would be interested in.”

Oh but you are so wrong!

We look at all the other people around us and think they are more talented, smarter, or have it all together. They have a right to share their talents with the world because their work/gifts are so needed and they can really make a difference.

It’s so easy to get caught up in this thinking, to diminish our talents, our gifts because they don’t measure up to what someone else can do. But that thinking has to stop right now!

You never know what an impact you can make on someone’s life with your written word, a song, a drawing, a listening ear or a hand to hold. We often think that our gifts have to be tangible things but sometimes the greatest gift is the gift of just being present when someone needs you.

In Native American culture, there isn’t a word translation for artist because they believe that everyone in the tribe has a talent, a gift that they are revered for within the tribe. That talent or gift is neither looked upon as lesser or greater, they are all seen as equal. If one person is a great warrior and another is a good listener, they are revered the same because their talents/gifts are what makes the tribe a cohesive community.

Aren’t we all looking to live in a community that is filled with people who give their talents and gifts openly? 

So how do you find your talents/gifts if they are not obvious to you? How do you find the truth to your hidden talents/gifts?

Your secret weapon for uncovering the truth…….your friends.

Your really close friends will surprise you with their insights. They already know your talents/gifts and will quickly point them out to you. Once you uncover the truth, use it! Don’t shrink back into hiding, don’t shy away from compliments. Be proud of what you have to offer us and quit making excuses.

And please don’t wait for someone else to “do it better.” Your gifts/talents are unique to you and no one can do it the way you do so quit fooling yourself.

Ready to change the world? Give us your best stuff and the world will be a much better place to live.

I would love to hear your thoughts on what gifts you have to offer the world! Be brave and share with all of us. Also I would love for you to share the love of this post with someone who you feel has some “untapped” gifts/talents to share.

Plant your flag proudly and fly it freely. The world needs you!

 

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I Love You Because….

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Is Your Soul Alive?

A single blade of grass in the pasture.

“If a blade of grass springing up in the fields has the power to move you… rejoice, for your soul is alive.” ~Eleonora Duse, Actress This quote is on the wallpaper of my computer, I look at it every day, several times a day. It reminds me to look for the things that really matter and [...]

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Where Are You Going In 2013?

New Beginnings

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Let’s Chat

Coffee Talk

“As long as there was coffee in the world, how bad could things be?”  ― Cassandra Clare, City of Ashes All of my friends know that I love my coffee and a good conversation always goes better with a cup of that wonderful aromatic brew. This is your invitation to pull up a chair with your favorite [...]

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The Perfect Gift ~ Time

Giving the gift of time

 ”Time the most precious gift one can give. Each moment is unique because it will never happen again…the gift of your time spent with others is the ultimate display of unconditional love.”~Robert W. Merriweathe Last Christmas I introduced the ultimate “Christmas bomb“, a Christmas without presents. At first it was greeted with frowns of disapproval [...]

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Okay So You Are “Mad as Hell,” Now What?

Mad As Hell and You Are Not Going To Take It Anymore!

No, this is not about the election results, this is about YOUR life!  We have all been there, “Mad as hell and we are not going to take it anymore!” Frustrated, confused and feeling like you are stuck at the end of a very dead end road. Whether it’s your job, a relationship, a financial [...]

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Lessons from 30 days of Facebook-less

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“Time is what we want most, but what we use worst”~William Penn The challenge was offered by Joshua of The Minimalists, “What are you willing to give up for 30 days?”  I had been toying with the idea of 30 days of no personal Facebook time but his challenge gave me the fuel I needed. The [...]

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The Book Giveaway

The $100 Startup

“A year from now you will wish you had started today.” -Karen Lamb To help you start I want to give you a chance to win this great book, “The $100 Startup” by Chris Guillebeau, and because I truly believe that everyone has the ability to be a “micro-entrepreneur“ I have decided to giveaway two books [...]

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